May 9, 2013

A Piece Of Advice

So I am a little late on the challenge to blog every day in May, but I wanted to contribute to this topic too because I think it's a huge part of where I am today. I tend to be one of those people that everyone goes to for advice, good or bad, pretty or ugly, I tell it like it is. Sometimes a blessing, and a curse. When I read that yesterday's (now today's) topic was giving a piece of advice I knew immediately what I wanted it to be.

My advice is simple, and easy. When you have the choice between being negative or positive. Choose positive. Allowing yourself to dwell in negativity only further prolongs the process. I know sometimes it's easy to fall into the pity party trap of hating your life and everyone/everything in it..When you get to that point, remember this advice and just start thinking about what you're good at, or things you're blessed to have..When we let negative win, it can destroy our days, sometimes weeks. Time is valuable, and it should be spent wisely. If you know you have control of the situation, let yourself feel a certain way, but don't dwell.

People always tend to ask me why I seem so happy all the time, and the truth is no one is happy all the time. It's absolutely impossible. I have learned that the most important thing to remember , is how you take everything that happens to you. You choose how you're going to react, and how you're going to digest certain situations. We can't control what happens, we can however control how we respond to it.

Details : Bag // Courtesy of GGL  Shirt // Marshalls, Skirt // Urban Outfitters, Necklace //Gift ,
 Rings // Vintage & Etsy , Shoes // Nordstrom


  1. I always love to see you rocking these vintage glassess! The wedge is so chic as well!

  2. those shoes! so amazing!! x

  3. Gorgeous outfit! Love the top most of all. :) x

  4. This is some good advice and definitely the best way to live :)

    xo Ashley

  5. Beautiful sentiments and a beautiful outfit! xo


  6. Lovely outfit! And positive is always the way to go! Have a great day! :)


  7. dying for the shoes :3

  8. What a great post! I've been feeling a bit down lately and this really made me smile :)


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